Someone told me the condition doesn`t exist anymore.

It does.  You were clearly just trying to make me feel better.  The women here – Mexicans, Latinos – they have it down.  Somehow, they just exude it – in dress, in flirt, in laugh, in expression.  I don`t get it.  

No, I simply choose to believe in a new sense of femininity – one that I exude wholly and with some sort of modern grace.  Doesn`t translate?  Fine with me.  Thank you very much.